Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Grandma's Rocker

At some point during your first night home you had a little fussy spell. You had just eaten, Mom was exhausted and you couldn't sleep. I walked you a bit and then remembered that the rocking chair was down at the foot of the steps. It hadn't yet made it up to the bedroom. Down we went and just as soon as I sat down and relaxed my back against the chair you were asleep, but I stayed there for a while with you - rocking. Rocking chairs were made for babies. The arm rests are at just the right height for nursing and the rythmic motion quiets both Mom and child. It always amazes me how I automatically start to rock and how long I can keep it up without tiring.
This chair belonged to my grandmother, your great-great grandmother, Jane. I remember it in the corner of her bedroom surrounded by windows that looked out onto the large yard with the apple trees. I used to love to sit there and read her magazines and MaryKnoll tracts, or listen to my radio (it was a transitor radio - you'll have no idea what that is). She always had lilac water and talc on her dresser.

I guess she realized how much I enjoyed it because she left it to me. My mother went over to her house an rescued it for me after she died. I never took it with me to Venezuela. It stayed in my mother's room in Barnegat Light. I always wanted your mother to have it for her babies, and now she does.

So we sat and rocked for almost an hour you and I, in a hundred year old chair, in communion with great-great grandma Jane, great grandma Catherine and your mother.

Nothing relaxes like a rocking chair.

Now it's up in the bedroom where your Mom can use it to nurse and rock you. Blessings on you from all those who have rocked before.

P.S. The afghan over the back of the chair is one my mother made. I have several of her afghans waiting to be handed down.

Coming Home

June 7th - your Great Aunt Marjie's birthday and your homecoming day.

After passing all the myriad tests required for release, and a good long conversation between you and me as to what to expect, we gathered up all of our things ready to go. Your Grandpa had to make a few trips down to the car to get us all organized. Hospital regulations ruled the whole procedure. You had to be 48 hours old, yet we had to get out before 9:00p.m. or stay another night. Your Mom had papers to sign, your ID bracelets were checked, your leg alarm removed, and then you were strapped into your carseat. Your Mom had to travel down to the car in a wheel chair with you in your seat on her lap. Her favorite nurse and focal point wheeled her down to the car to check that we had the carseat base installed in the back seat, center, facing the rear of the car. Fortunately we pased inspection, and so we were off.
You proved to be a great traveller - a fortunate trait in our family - and didn't even whimper all the way home. Just like your Mom you're happiest when you're moving.
We arrived home in Savanna, you got "comfy" in your pj's, and so to bed - for a while anyway.



Monday, June 8, 2009

Day 1


We moved into room 254 in the postpartum section late last night. You settled right in. We managed to get a few hours sleep - you weren't the only one disturbing our slumber. Seems the nurses come to an agreement so that each one comes in at a different time all through the night. You were a joy. Hardly any crying.

During the day we had many visitors - your great grandma, Nina, Tia China, Tio Luis, grandpa, Uncle Randy, Tia Hilda, Maria, Israel, Juan, Andreina, and Ena. Fortunately (and wisely) we were assigned to a double room which had one of the beds removed, so we had loads of space, which we filled up nicely, thank you. Don't know what we would have done if we had to share a double room - besides drive our roommate crazy.

You were oblivious to all the comings and goings. Asleep most of the time and quite alert at others.

Your Mom and I were runing on pure adrenaline - or euphoria. Everything was "excellent" as our nurse, Olga, would say.

Your first day went by without any problems - except for that reclining chair I slept in and couldn't get to fold up again. But besides that, all was well.


Saturday, June 6, 2009

Your Birthday

Your Mom and I woke up in the delivery room early on Friday, June 5th. She was confined to bed because of her blood pressure. Every time she sat up her pressure would rise and the nurse would make her lie down on her side again. As per you Mom's request (insistance) there are no pictures of the goings on during the day.

Your Dad arrived in the afternoon and Tia Hilda came from the office. Your Mom was a real trooper. We worked with 4 different teams of midwives and nurses while we were there. They were all great, but I must say that we had the best team for the final push. Your Mom did great. I was so proud of her, and she was amazed at herself. She was so elated when she heard that you were about to arrive that she pushed as if she had done this several times before. We didn't start the pushing phase until after the shift change at 7:00 - we met Julia and the nurse who became your Mom's focal point, and got down to business. They were nice enough to let three of us accompany your Mom and witness your arrival. Your Dad, Tia Hilda and I each had our stations and it was as exhilirating as it was exhausting.


At 8:37 you arrived - pink and beautiful, with a full head of dark hair, wide awake and taking it all in. Finally I was allowed to take pictures. Yesterday the midwife was correct - 7 pounds 8 ounces, 20 1/4 inches long. You were like Mary Poppins "practically perfect in every way."


They cleaned you up, took your footprints and gave you to your Mom to nurse - which you did like an old pro. By this time it was after 9:00 and visiting hours were officially over, but Julia had pity on us and allowed all your visitors to come in - your Grandpa, Uncle Randy, Nina, Tia China, Tio Luis, Sophia, Aquiles, Harold - all came into the delivery room to greet you. Israel, Maria, Juan and Andreina got left out in the parking lot because they hadn't gotten into the waiting room by 9. The nurse said she'd never seen so many people waiting for a baby to be born.


You are loved, my dear. May the Lord bless you and keep you. You are already a blessing to us all.

Friday, June 5, 2009

The Final Stretch

We were three days past your supposed due date. Your Mom was a bit discouraged and very uncomfortable. When we set out from the house in the morning for an appointment with the doctor little did we know that we wouldn't be returning home without you.

Just like last week, your Mom's blood pressure was high and her feet and legs were quite swollen. The doctor sent us from her office back to the hospital for another monitoring session. We stopped by Panera at about noon and your Mom had some mushroom soup and half a sandwhich - her last meal for more than 36 hours.

When we got to the hospital it seemed just like last week. Your Mom's pressure was down again - when she was laying flat on the bed. All her labs were good. They did a sonogram, which was a bit scary. The technician kept saying what a large baby you were - more than 9 pounds - and your head was so large that you had to be more than 41 weeks. Thank God for the midwife who said there was no way you were that large. She estimated between 7 and 8 pounds. Nothing like experience.

Anyway - we thought we would be heading home to return on Monday the 8th, when the midwife came back and said she was going to admit you and induce labor. She was worried about your Mom's blood pressure and didn't want her coming back in a couple of days in labor with higher, more critical pressure.


So we were off to your delivery room. We spent the rest of June 4th there as your Mom started into labor - your Tia Hilda, your Mom and I. It was a very comfortable room.
We had TV, a rocking chair, a pull out sofa bed, a table and chairs, and of course all the necessary equipment to care for your Mom and welcome you into the world.


I bunked down on the sofa bed. Tia Hilda went home to return the next day. Your Mom and I managed to get a few hours sleep as we began the marathon of your arrival. Your Grandpa and Uncle Randy and your Great Grandma, Nina, had been circling the hospital all day waiting for news. They headed back up to Weston to sleep so they could return to wait for your arrival tomorrow.

Monday, June 1, 2009

The Waiting Game

Well - today is the day you were supposed to arrive - June 1st - and we are still waiting. Everything is ready. I've been here with your Mom for a month now, since the baby shower.
We are settled into Maria and Israel's house in Savanna, Weston. We have gathered and assembled everything we think you might possibly need. Your grandfather and uncle and your great-grandmother, Nina, are all here with us and your great aunt and uncle are in Orlando, on call. Your Uncle Randy has practised with the stroller and is now fully certified to take you out for a walk. Can't think of much we might have missed.

Your mother is doing fine - just more than ready to get to know you. Her suitcase has been travelling around with us for the past week or two. All systems are go - any time you're ready....

As Dr. Seuss says - all we can do is to sit, sit, sit, sit. And we do not like it, not one little bit.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Baby Shower in Davie

Saturday, May 2, 2009 - we enjoyed a tremendous Baby Shower, Reunion, general good time at Maria and Israel Carruyo's house. Maria planned and decorated beautifully - everything was beyond perfect. The cake was a work of art, the buffet amazing. Maria made her special iced tea and Mimosa's.

There were three expectant mom's in attendance - Ceci, Tammy and Mariela. We played games, organized by Tammy and Hilda, and Tico monopolized the prizes. But mostly we visited and enjoyed the company of dear friends we hadn't seen for ages.


Tammy and Jon and Sienna came in from Chicago. Linda travelled from Oklahoma, Caroline and Victor from Atlanta, Eugenia and Heather made a 9-hour, 2 day drive down from the Florida Panhandle, Aloha and Tico came over from Sanibel. We happily shared their visits with friends from closer-by, Hilda, Mariela, Egidia, Lili, Masiel, Andreina and Juan, Ena, Adriana, Marisol, Greys, Harold, Mauricio... it was a perfect, happy day.
We will cherish forever the memories of this wonderful day - and thank all who contributed through planning, cooking, travelling, playing and visiting with us.